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I’ve observed thousands of founders and thought a lot about what it takes to make a huge amount of money or to create something important. Usually, people start off wanting the former and end up...

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The other day I made an advice thread based on Jacobian’s from last year! If you know a source for one of these, shout and I’ll edit it in.  •   …

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Everything that lives is designed to end. We are perpetually trapped in a never ending spiral of life and death. Is this a curse? Or some kind of punishment? I often think about the god who blessed us with this cryptic puzzle… and wonder if we’ll ever get the chance to kill him.

Weiss, you dumbass! Start making sense you rotten book or you're gonna be sorry. Maybe I'll rip your pages out one by one, or maybe I'll put you on the God damn furnace! How can someone with such a big smart brain get hypnotised like a little bitch, huh? 'Oh Shadowlord, I love you Shadowlord. Come over here and give Weiss a big sloppy kiss Shadowlord.' Now pull your head out of your ass and START FUCKING HELPING US!

Tell me. For whom do you fight?

Hmph! How very glib. And do you believe in Eorzea? Eorzea's unity is forged of falsehoods. Its city-states are built on deceit. And its faith is an instrument of deception.

It is naught but a cobweb of lies. To believe in Eorzea is to believe in nothing. In Eorzea, the beast tribes often summon gods to fight in their stead--though your comrades only rarely respond in kind. Which is strange, is it not?

Are the "Twelve" otherwise engaged? I was given to understand they were your protectors. If you truly believe them your guardians, why do you not repeat the trick that served you so well at Carteneau, and call them down? They will answer--so long as you lavish them with crystals and gorge them on aether. Your gods are no different than those of the beasts--eikons every one. Accept but this, and you will see how Eorzea's faith is bleeding the land dry.

Nor is this unknown to your masters. Which prompts the question: Why do they cling to these false deities? What drives even men of learning--even the great Louisoix--to grovel at their feet? The answer? Your masters lack the strength to do otherwise! For the world of man to mean anything, man must own the world. To this end, he hath fought ever to raise himself through conflict--to grow rich through conquest. And when the dust of battle settles, is it ever the strong who dictate the fate of the weak.

Knowing this, but a single path is open to the impotent ruler--that of false worship. A path which leads to enervation and death. Only a man of power can rightly steer the course of civilization. And in this land of creeping mendacity, that one truth will prove its salvation.

Come, champion of Eorzea, face me! Your defeat shall serve as proof of my readiness to rule! It is only right that I should take your realm. For none among you has the power to stop me!

Remind me to make a longer post about this later, but I think there’s an interesting similarity in the way nonbinary (or genderqueer people in general) talk about the nuances of their gender and how people really big into specific music scenes talk about the nuances of the genres they listen to. Like there’s the description you give other people in your community, and the “normie” description you give to people who aren’t as familiar. And “genre” and “gender” are both constructs in similar ways too. Just my little binary observation tho.

I’ll expand more on this later. But anyway, start asking people what genre they are and what gender of music they listen to.

here’s that longer post, but keep in mind i’m halfway through a bottle of soju rn

so as a binary trans person, i often had a difficult time understanding the really specific genders and gender identities i’ll see. obviously i’ll still support them, but i had trouble understanding. and that’s just because my gender journey has been different.

sometimes (in less than positive circles) i’ll see bad faith arguments against people with these genders like “the census isn’t going to mark you down as ‘catgender’ lmao” which is annoying because i’ve never seen anyone say that?

the thesis of this post started to prickle in my head when i saw genderqueer mutuals of mine reblogging that post that was like “what is the gender identity you describe yourself as around cis people, and what’s the specific one you actually identify as?” reading through people’s responses and the way they described the nuances of their genders made me go

“oh shit, it’s all music”

because if i’m listening to altar of plagues and my coworker asks what kind of music i’m listening to, i’m just going to say “metal”. and if my grandma asks, i’ll just say “rock”. but if i’m talking to another person who i know is familiar with metal, that’s when i feel like i wouldn’t be wasting my breath going into specifics. because i know they’d know how describing a band as “black metal” is different than describing one as “power metal” or whatever.

that’s what a lot of bad faith arguments around nonbinary genders don’t seem to realize. they’re not for the cishet majority to understand. i’d even argue that they’re not for binary trans people to understand either, considering it took me this long to understand.

but it seems like when people talk about their gender through the lens of anything that goes beyond just male, female, or even strictly nonbinary, it comes from a place of wanting to discuss the nuances of gender identity.

like here’s an interaction between two hip-hop heads that has never happened:

person 1: i like memphis rap – specifically horrorcore.

person 2: okay, i have no followup questions. let’s talk about something that has nothing to do with rap or music.

like if someone is coming out as cloudgender to you, it’s because they think you’re someone who can hang and talk about what that means. what does “cloudgender” mean to you? is it the constantly-shifting state? the association with the weather? the moodiness? the same way two people could have a 6 hour heated discussion about the differences between delta blues and hill country blues, but if you played a charley patton song back to back with an rl burnside song, some people who aren’t familiar with blues won’t be able to tell the difference. you might as well play the same song twice. so if someone identifies as a demigirl in some circles but to you they just say they’re nonbinary or even just “female”, they clocked you as a gender normie lol.

and just like gender, genre “doesn’t exist”, but it still has societal impact. a lot of the blues i listen to wouldn’t sound out of place next to country artists. where are the lines? race? class? culture? all of the above? and this becomes muddier when you look at marketing. being plastered with a specific genre can be the kiss of death for your mainstream career, or the thing that pushes you to the top. it’s a social construct, but we are social people.

anyway, i hope this makes sense. as a binary trans person i’m not sure where i fit in this analogy. maybe it’s like i listened to a bunch of specific subgenres and went like “yeah these all scratch the same itch for me”. but if people find meaning within the nichest of niche genres, i think that’s amazing. you are an onion and you just kept peeling. when i see people with identities like bloodgender or flowergender, i see someone with a much more nuanced and complex relationship with their gender than i ever could have. i see poetry. i see music.

the booze is catching up with me.

Draw from real life, avoid the myths. and treat them like the antagonists they are.

The moral of the story is: if you’re against witch-hunts, and you promise to found your own little utopian community where witch-hunts will never happen, your new society will end up consisting of approximately three principled civil libertarians and seven zillion witches. It will be a terrible place to live even if witch-hunts are genuinely wrong.

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The fat activists have this one backwards

Don’t misrepresent what these services are or can do. Your therapy bots aren’t licensed psychologists, your AI girlfriends are neither girls nor friends, your griefbots have no soul, and your AI copilots are not gods.

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